Nasreen Akhtar

Posts Tagged ‘romance’

The Curtain Comes Down

In Heart, Life, love, Men & Women on January 26, 2010 at 2:04 am

It hit front page news on the Independent yesterday – the speculation that the Hollywood first couple, Pitt & Jolie were calling it a day.

Amy Jenkins wrote the article, making it clear that even though the rumours had not been confirmed, that they hadn’t been denied either. Today it seems that the damage control is firmly in place with speculation being watered with the proverbial ‘we are working at it’ and that the couple are ‘very much together’.

I remember when Gere-Crawford split came to be. Didn’t they take out a double page spread in a top US newspaper, denying the rumours and insisting that they too were ‘very much together’? Months later, it turned out that they ceased to be ‘very much together’ for real.

Celebrity gossip is a hobby for many, but that is not the aim of this post (everyone is entitled to a private life are they not?) – the point is that it makes me think about love ‘n’ stuff – If only we could fall in love and stay in love forever? … At some stage or another things come to an end, when they have run their course… Naively, we think that love lasts forever, but the reality is that seldom does it, and if it does for you, then you are truly blessed and never stop being grateful for it.

Love most often is a passing phase, it is never guaranteed, that you will be loved back, or that if you are that you always will be. Falling out of love is just as a reality as is falling in love. Nothing is ever guaranteed; nothing is ever for sure except death and taxes (which ironically Pitt’s character in Meet Joe Black also says.)

The essence of great love stories

In Love Stories on February 23, 2009 at 3:24 am

“One of the great things about classic love stories is their cathartic or spiritual function. Unlike modern genre romances, there can be tragedy: all may not end well for star-crossed lovers. Yet strangely, without the predictable “happy” ending, we can feel uplifted and one with all of humanity across time and culture. I think a good love story is existentialist and speaks to the reality – whether we like it or not – of separation and ultimate loss, even with ecstatic union with the beloved Other. A good love story, like all great literature and all heroic quests, all great spiritual traditions since prehistoric shamanism, is really about the meaning of life and mortality.”

 

I adore the above quote by Lesley Thomas, who was the listauthor, featured at this link (http://www.amazon.com/favorite-literary-stories-romance-genre/lm/RDMJVC11SPKVG which has since then been removed. :(

 

But I am glad that I came across it when I did. :)

 

 

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